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Well I met this guy 2 years ago, and if I knew anything about it I would say it was love at first sight, which would probably explain why I still think about him all the time, and I've had a boyfriend and been married since then. well this guy and I have had our ins and outs, he has a girlfriend that doesn't want him talking to me or something so he doesn't, but I'm one of those people if you really want something then don't give up, so I would text him. and he'd either text back or not. I've been through a lot emotionally with this guy. we hung out one time when we first met and we kissed but that's about it. we talked all the time but decided we both didn't want a long distance relationship cause I lived 4 hours away, I was only visiting family when I met him. well he got a girlfriend so we quit talking so much, and on and off we went. well the last time I texted him like a month ago I was kind of a bitch cause I was pissed off and he told me I should just move on, well I thought I did, and then I was driving home from work the other day and he popped into my head out of no where, well my mum says he's my "Noah" (the notebook) whether I like it or not, he's always going to be in my heart. and so I texted him and he actually replied he was being a little short so I cut the conversation short, well the next day I sent him a picture of me, to see If it was even him texting me, and he never replied so I texted him yesterday and asked if he got my picture he said no, so he had me send it to his email, then he sent me a couple pictures of him. I asked if he could call me cause I was smoking a cigarette and I don't like smoking alone outside and night, and he called me, we were on the phone for almost a hour, and he was nagging me about how I'm old enough its about time I fly the coop, and go live life. that I should go to LA (which is were he is) then he started asking me what I want from him, cause I'm so consistent, he tried to help me break it down so I can figure out why I just cant shake him cause any other guy I can. well I told him cause I think I still have feelings for him and I'm just trying to find out, and he said I fucked a lot of stuff up for him with past relationships I've caused them fights and stuff cause I texted him, and I don't understand how that's my fault cause all id say is hi, unless he told them about me or they were super insecure I don't know why someone would get so upset from a hello. well anyways towards the end of the conversation he was saying that he needed to think about things, he's glad we had this talk but he needed to get off the phone and just text me, cause I was driving him crazy. he said he thinks rationally and I was making him think crazy shit, he doesn't understand, but it wasn't bad. so I shouldn't worry I just needed to let him think so we got off the phone and he texted me and said he just didn't want to get all emotional and stuff on a phone call and he was still attracted to me, but well figure it out. I don't know what to do. my mom and grandma say that maybe I never left his mind either and that's why its driving him crazy cause I'm stuck in his mind, but my dad said to leave him alone, cause it doesn't sound like its going to go well or something, that I shouldn't try and persue a relationship with him.
I'm so confused, and I'm so sorry this is so long.
I am sorry if this sounds rude, but you need to back off.
This guy told you that you need to move on, He is in a relationship with someone. It is a nice thought to not give up on things but it is a whole different ball game to try and sabotage someone's relationship. Your persistence isn't paying off, It is annoying him.
Sometimes we need to except we can't always have things in life. This guy moved on and you need to except and respect that. Coming between his relationship is going to cause him to resent you. He is TAKEN, Sorry for the caps but you should ve getting a hint...
(Rating: 5) I understand, thankyou. and the thing is I didn't write it correctly he is not in a relationship right now, I meant that as in the past