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İm from turkey,15 years old and male,i'm finishing 9th grade this year.İ just loved a girl and wanted to close to her,i knew he has a boyfriend but i just think like i can wait until they break up (even if it takes next year).İ just stared to talk with her abit,get her number and started to message for 1,5-2 hours for 3 days.She even started to talk with me when im too shy and i cant,i wasnt talking with her friends,iust with her.İ tough my self she understanted it and she loves me too,but than she said she's gonna delete whatsapp because of a error and gonna install if she wants,i was like ok,we can talk at school too,after that day we talked abit,like"how was your exam ..." after few lessons her class has gone to a museum,i couldnt talk at launch.But after that day she just act like she doent evn know me,i was really suprises(i couldnt even talk to her because she was like she dont want to)later that day a 10th grade came near me (hes my friend also but he talks with their girl group alot) and ask me if i love her,that just shocked me because he wasnt supposed to kmow this,i said yes because i tough everyone knows it and theres nothing to do.İm not sure everyone knows it but something makes me blieve it does,after whole 9th grades watched a film,when we are exiting the room(i prefer to exit last) a guy pointed me and made a heart with his hands and laughed at me.İm not trying to still get her,because i learned ehat should i do,But i want to learn things, why did she do that'what was she thinking and why did she selected this way ? also please say other things that you think i should know or you should say to me.Thanks
You are not respecting the fact that she is in a relationship with someone. You may if been smothering her without realizing it. If you want to be her friend then respect her space, Don't text her all the time. This girl has a boyfriend and you are coming between her relationship by being clingy. If you continue, She will end up resenting you for it. Let her come to you abd if she doesn't, Then she is not interested in being your friend.
(Rating: 2) i know that she has a boyfriend,and i didnt go trough like it.And even if i try to become her friend everyone will understand the situation.İ,ll leave it to next year,when everyone forget things from lastyear and talk about ehat did they did.Like i said for now i cant do anything about this situation.And i learned it today that not much people knows it.Normally i wont think or get sensitive for that but the thing that matters me.Why this is the solution for it? she could say it to me.And you said im not respecting to her relationship,maybe i didnt realize it but in school i dont talk much,not because im shy,i just dont think i need to,i like to talk but only with my friends.They know it,i just think like if i talk with them much they think i see them as my friends and everything would be easier.But i couldnt because of the damn school trips,if i could do that no one would think like that,even she wont understand it.