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my crush just said everyone i like her and bow doesent eventalks with me (I am from Turkey)


Question Posted Thursday May 30 2013, 4:06 pm

İm from turkey,15 years old and male,i'm finishing 9th grade this year.İ just loved a girl and wanted to close to her,i knew he has a boyfriend but i just think like i can wait until they break up (even if it takes next year).İ just stared to talk with her abit,get her number and started to message for 1,5-2 hours for 3 days.She even started to talk with me when im too shy and i cant,i wasnt talking with her friends,iust with her.İ tough my self she understanted it and she loves me too,but than she said she's gonna delete whatsapp because of a error and gonna install if she wants,i was like ok,we can talk at school too,after that day we talked abit,like"how was your exam ..." after few lessons her class has gone to a museum,i couldnt talk at launch.But after that day she just act like she doent evn know me,i was really suprises(i couldnt even talk to her because she was like she dont want to)later that day a 10th grade came near me (hes my friend also but he talks with their girl group alot) and ask me if i love her,that just shocked me because he wasnt supposed to kmow this,i said yes because i tough everyone knows it and theres nothing to do.İm not sure everyone knows it but something makes me blieve it does,after whole 9th grades watched a film,when we are exiting the room(i prefer to exit last) a guy pointed me and made a heart with his hands and laughed at me.İm not trying to still get her,because i learned ehat should i do,But i want to learn things, why did she do that'what was she thinking and why did she selected this way ? also please say other things that you think i should know or you should say to me.Thanks

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Xui answered Thursday May 30 2013, 11:02 pm:
You are not respecting the fact that she is in a relationship with someone. You may if been smothering her without realizing it. If you want to be her friend then respect her space, Don't text her all the time. This girl has a boyfriend and you are coming between her relationship by being clingy. If you continue, She will end up resenting you for it. Let her come to you abd if she doesn't, Then she is not interested in being your friend.

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