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My baby's momma acts really weird lately she gets annoyed by anything she yells at me fights with me and I love her a lot I'm still trying because she's pregnant I'm really trying for my future family but I wanna kill myself most of the time
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When a women is pregnant her hormones are all mixed up, especially as she nears the end of the pregnancy. Then add in the fact that the closer to her due date she is the more uncomfortable she is.
Just about every organ in her body is not in its proper place. They have been pushed aside and up to make room for the baby. Any man who has had his wife or girlfriend go through a pregnancy knows how you feel at this time.
All I can tell you is she doesn't mean what she is saying. She is uncomfortable and she is dealing with raging hormones on top of it. The best thing you can do is try to agree with anything she says, do what ever she asks when she asks it of you . Help her with whatever she is doing and see to it that she can stays off her feet whenever a possible for as long as possible.
Most women have terrible back pain when pregnant or in the late term of pregnancy. One thing you can do to help her is to offer to rub her back for her. You don't have to be a massage therapist, just rub her back and she will let you know where and how hard to rub. My wife use to like to have her feet washed and her toe nails polished. Washing her feet was not a problem and I learned how to put polish on her nails. Why she liked this I can't say and after our child was born she could not tell me. It was just something that made her feel good.
So my advice is be Mr. helpful and Mr. agreeable. Don't take anything she say bad or argumentative to heart as she probably doesn't mean it and won't remember any of it after the baby is born.
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I am so sorry to hear that things are not going well in her pregnancy causing you to be miserable.
I can't say that it will be over with end of pregnancy so you both need to talk to your doctor.
It's common to have mood swings during pregnancy, because of hormonal changes that affect her levels of neurotransmitters in the brain and the broad range of feelings you may have about becoming a parent. Everyone responds differently to these changes. Some moms-to-be experience heightened emotions, both good and bad; others feel more depressed or anxious. Statistics show that most find moodiness flaring up at around 6 to 10 weeks, easing up in the second trimester, and then reappearing towards end of the pregnancy.
However there are women that fare pretty well during pregnancy but are hard hit by post partum depression (after giving birth).
It is important that we get you back to feeling mentally and emotionally healthy, strong and not depressed also. Both of you in that condition is not going to be good for baby now or after its born. Babys can pick up the mood in utero from mom and be born an anxious unconsolable child.
Time to talk to her Dr. and see what they can suggest. During pregnancy Drs are not much into giving out meds for fear of harming baby but you never know, there could be something on the market now that helps. Plus, they may suggest some counseling. Please get the professional advice!
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