I am now stuck in a situation that's really hurting me , I have never done this or tought of sharing my problems on such an advise website but I can't hold back . I have recently moved in with my pregnant girlfriends she's now 5 months and a half but recently I've felt like she dosnt like me here are some examples
1. She's always annoyed by the things I do
2. She's always fighting with me basically fighting over everything
3. She was in a relationship before me and we'll she always put up with his shit and he would treat her horrible I treat her like a queen and get treated like trash help?
Just about every organ in her body is not in its proper place. They have been pushed aside and up to make room for the baby. Any man who has had his wife or girlfriend go through a pregnancy knows how you feel at this time.
All I can tell you is she doesn't mean what she is saying. She is uncomfortable and she is dealing with raging hormones on top of it. The best thing you can do is try to agree with anything she says, do what ever she asks when she asks it of you . Help her with whatever she is doing and see to it that she can stays off her feet whenever a possible for as long as possible.
Most women have terrible back pain when pregnant or in the late term of pregnancy. One thing you can do to help her is to offer to rub her back for her. You don't have to be a massage therapist, just rub her back and she will let you know where and how hard to rub. My wife use to like to have her feet washed and her toe nails polished. Washing her feet was not a problem and I learned how to put polish on her nails. Why she liked this I can't say and after our child was born she could not tell me. It was just something that made her feel good.
So my advice is be Mr. helpful and Mr. agreeable. Don't take anything she say bad or argumentative to heart as she probably doesn't mean it and won't remember any of it after the baby is born. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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