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F/high school age
my boyfriend lives in another country (4212 miles away). we've been together almost 3 months, we Skype everyday, and obviously we are an online relationship. i KNOW hes my soul mate.
..my mother is a strict christian lady and she has told me multiple times "no talking to strangers online" (as if i was 13!!) she always talks to me about molesters and men whom rape and hurt young woman and they draw them in through the internet,she asumes any guy on the internet is there to hurt girls (or something)
i know that if she met him she would love him,... but what do i say? how? shes a very loving person and she trusts me... but no guys on the internet... i know im in over my head, but if i didn't want to spend the rest of my life with this boy i wouldn't worry about telling her...
Well thank you for any help or advise you might have



Well, You probably don't want to hear this but I agree with Mom.

I truly believe you are not in love with him, You are in love with the thought of him. You cannot love someone you never met. On the other hand, People lie and pretend on the internet and while he may indeed be a person he says he is, Online relationships are a fantasy. Online relationships are not the real thing. You think he is your soul mate but you are hung up on the attention and are head over heels with knowing someone is giving you attention.

Let's be realistic, He is thousands of miles away. This man is a fantasy, The relationship is not real.

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