Age:
28Member Since:
December 1, 2010Answers:
3046Last Update:
December 22, 2014Visitors:
56492Favorite Columnists
Dragonflymagic
solidadvice4teens
rainhorse68
AdviceMistress
adviceman49
Jasmine23
Razhie
NinjaNeer
LaMarionnette
flare
nascarfan1987
more...
about
I am straight to the point, My advice is given based on my opinions of what YOU write. I may not always tell you what you want to hear but I am not here to sugar coat shit.
I am honest, I am blunt, At times an asshole but one thing I can promise, I'll never lie.
advice
22/F
My ex and I were together for 5 years off and on. We broke up last september but continued to try to make things work up until november when he just stopped talking to me. He'd always break up with me and then go running back to his ex for a week or two and then come back to me expecting me to accept him and like an idiot I did. this went on for 5 years! Well a mutual friend texted me yesterday asking me if I knew that he was engaged and I completely fell apart. I'm pretty sure he's engaged to that girl and I always knew the day would come where he never came back but I guess I just always hoped he would. Well anyways I lost it and I feel completely heart broken I can't even talk to my current bf about it because I know he'll be like "you still love him? are you not happy with me?" and I really don't know why I feel so sad. I always thought in the end it would be me and him.. I just want to text him so bad and yell at him and tell him how much I hate him but I know that wouldn't solve anything. What did I do?
You are not over him, You cannot truly value a relationship until you are. It is not fair to you or your current boyfriend if you are allowing yourself to drown in old baggage.
STOP looking at his information, Delete his number infant, cut all contact. It has been over a year and you need to except he moved on, You both are no longer together. You are with someone else and if you want that relationship to work then you have to focus on what you have and learn to appreciate it. It is pretty shitty to sit here admitting your still hung up on an ex rather then being happy in your current relationship. Who cares if he got engaged, why does it bother you so much? If someone leaves on and off fir a period of five years then sweetie you need to realize that you never had him to begin with. You need to stop and accept it, from the sound of it your not ready to be with someone new right now. You are in a way lying to yourself and your leading the poor giy on
(Rating: 5) Thanks although it was a bit harsh you're right.. I broke up with my bf until I'm ready to be ok with my ex being with someone else. This helped so i appreciate it.