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Theres a guy that was my boyfriend for a year. We ended up breaking up but he is still madly in love with me. I don't really know if i love him but i care about him alot. We are taking a break from talking for a week and it is super hard for him. I feel kind of relieved to have this time to myself. I already show that i don't have loving feelings with him anymore. Whenever i show him that i don't feel right anymore in this situation, he gets super sad and i can't take it; i'm always feeling awful. I don't know how to push myself to stop showing signs of affection. By me staying and pretending to still have feelings for him is confusing him. I feel like i'm playing with his emotions. I need to stop but i don't know how. I really don't want to hurt him, it kills me. Someone please help i'm going insane.
You allowing yourself guilt by remaining in contact with him. As long as he is in contact you are never going to allow yourself to move on. We can care about someone but that doesn't mean that person is right for us . You said it, You are relieved you are no longer with him. I think it is great you realize that as nobody should live in misery. However you owe it too yourself to move forward and not be dragged down by his neediness.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. That really sums up how i feel about everything. I'm glad someone understands my viewpoint on this situation!