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hey guys so my boyfriend and I have sex and fool around. after sex and "fingering" is it normal for the "inner flaps" of the vagina to swell (not huge but definitely swell) and feel raw? thanks so much :)

It's TOTALLY normal. If it gets to the point where you start bleeding - even if its just a little pink- you may want to take a couple days off from having sex for it to heal so it doesn't get worse.

The good news is, the more you have sex, the more elasticity your " lady parts" get. So it hurts less and less.

More good news! Most guys are ready to go without all the foreplay and would find it hot if you just went for it without getting warmed up first. It'll give you a little time to heal and you both get some pleasure out of it :)

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!!
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