ask orphans



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



This is the account that questions and answers from abandoned accounts are assigned to.
Member Since: January 14, 2006
Answers: 12040
Last Update: February 16, 2011
Visitors: 154177

Main Categories:
Colleges & Universities
Job Searches
Personal Finance
View All

Favorite Columnists
iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0
karenR
DangerNerd
AdviceMistress
Sherry
christina
Razhie
Matt
theymos
The_MoUsY_spell_checker
Cux
more...
Hey everyone! I'm 14/f

Recently I've been confronted with a common -- more common than I thought -- situation & it seems that whenever something new is presented to me, whether it be a new word or a new show I've never heard of, I start to see it everywhere. That is really no surprise because it happens each time I'm presented with something new.

This time the situation is knowing a person from the opposite sex for a long time & ending up married when you're older. I have always wondered why that is ever since I was little & had my forever crush on a friend.

There are a few songs that I already knew for a few years, others that I just learned, but have been hearing them a lot lately. Like:
Mary's Song (Oh My My My) - Taylor Swift
Should've kissed you - Chris Brown
Speak Now - Taylor Swift
Sparks fly - Taylor Swift
Back to December - Taylor Swift
Ours - Taylor Swift
Goodbye - Kesha

And then aside from the songs, I have seen a bunch of couples kissing everywhere I go, holding hands, kissing, flirting, laughing, happy people. I'm just stuck in the corner all sad because I'm too much of a wimp to tell "him" how I feel. It's like i'm bring tormented by my own thoughts! It's driving me crazy & I don't like it at all! I dream about it and everything!

I would just like to know, is it normal for this to happen to people? Thanks for reading. (link)
Hi!
You pretty much answered your own question with "It's like i'm (being) tormented by my own thoughts!"

When we have something on our minds, it seems to keep hitting us in the face. For example, I'm hungry, and all of a sudden, something so simple looks just so amazing to eat! Or I just heard a new song, and now It feels as if I'm hearing it everywhere, but I'm only just paying attention to it now, when I didn't earlier on!

So really, it's just you noticing things because of thought - things you wouldn't have noticed before, and it's perfectly normal.


Rating: 5
Oh, i never thought of it that way, thanks.




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker