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I feel more pathetic and useless than I can tell you and I feel like the only thing I'm talented at is screwing up. I'm almost 25 years old and I live with my parents, I dropped out of college, I suck at my career, I screw up SO many things that I try including school, relationships, jobs, ect.. I suck as a person, a friend, a girlfriend, a sister, and sometimes a daughter and I don't feel pretty, skinny, smart, responsible, or talented enough for most people. I am going to do my best to get another job so that I can buy a car. I haven't had a car in two years because I'm too stupid and too much of a loser to have the money for one. I have had a terrible year because of scares with my health and the health of some loved ones. Everything has turned out fine, but a couple weeks ago, I had one stessful day after another and when I thought it was over, I was there when someone I love was injured and that night, I had an anxiety attack. I thought I was having a heart attack. I don't have the money for a counselor, so I tried online counseling, but the only counselor who bothered to email me back told me that I have a twisted way of looking at life and didn't help me. What can I do to get help? (link)
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Hello,
Firstly, if you ever need to speak, you can e-mail me on flare901@gmail.com
Now, you need to stop being so hard on yourself. Having a car, or being skinny is not what is most important in life.
Regarding work, it's hard for everyone. I've been unemployed for over a year. You just have to shake yourself off, get back up, and carry on moving forward.
You should learn about what happened in certain situations. Did your relationship end because of something you did? Did you lose your job because of a mistake you made? If it was genuinely your fault, then you need to learn from your mistakes. If it wasn't, then you shouldn't blame yourself.
Good luck though, and do email me if you need someone to talk to :)
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Thank you, I appreciate you letting me email you if I need to and I am grateful for your advice. You are extremely talented at this and know exactly what a person needs to hear. God bless you for your help.
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