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I don't know what to do with my boyfriend since he keeps hanging up on me,he just stops calling me for the whole day,he acts as though he was actually playing with me,he knows I am very sensitive and overemotional,and he seems to take advantage of that.The thing is that I don't wanna dump him,I cannot imagine my life without him;right away I start missing him a lot,I cry a lot and he knows this;so everytime we have the slightest argument he hangs up on me and spends the rest of the day without calling me or texting me,this situation sucks and I don't want it anymore,but I just don't know what to do,I don't know what to do with him.Last night we sorted things out but he warned me that if we start a fight again, he'll do the same no matter how much I cry and how much I beg him to call me.He's acting as a bad person and I know with all my heart that he's a good guy,he's got a good heart,then why does he do this?and what do I with him?Thanks for taking the time to read this;) (link)
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It sounds like he isn't really the guy for you.
You clearly notice that he is taking advantage of your feelings. He also says that he'll hang up on you no matter what, if you argue again.
Communication (along with trust) is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. If you two can not communicate your problems to get past them, then it will never work. EVER.
If he want's to be childish, and hang up, then he can. But the mature thing to do is to talk about it, rather than just to put the phone down and disregard your feelings.
He doesn't sound like a very nice guy at all to be honest. What I recommend is, that you break up with him. I know it may seem difficult, and painful right now. But you will- eventually- get over him. You will find someone who does not hurt you emotionally, and can understand how you feel.
So I say you speak to him. Break it off, if you can not reach an understanding whereby he is willing to speak about things, rather than hang up and ignore you.
Like I said, it won't be easy, but you'd rather end it now, rather than wait even longer, and get involved with him more and more until it becomes near impossible.
Good luck :)
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