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I'm a 13 yearold girl and I hear about people just a year older than me sucking guys dicks and having sex and stuff but I think that oral sex is disgusting. is that normal? I'm not a lesbian I just think that's gross. and should girls shave there down there hair? you all probably think "what is she talking about, she's 13?" but I want to no if I should. It would help if I got advice from girls and guys. and how old were you guys when you lost your virginity? any advice helps. Thanks (:
Yes, that's normal. You may change your mind when you're older, you may not. Plenty of people are still repulsed by the idea once they've lost their virginity. At 13 I don't think you should be 'sucking guys dicks' (as you so eloquently put it) anyway so it's not something you need to be worrying about right now.
What you do with your pubic hair is your personal choice and depends on what you feel comfortable with. Some women remove all their pubic hair by shaving, waxing or with a hair removal cream, some just trim, shave or wax certain areas to keep things neat and some just leave the whole thing au naturale. It's very much your decision. Don't do it because you think you should or because you think that's what a guy will want, do it because it's what YOU feel most comfortable with.
I was 16 when I lost my virginity and in hindsight I wish I'd waited a while longer. I did it because I just wanted to get it out of the way, which is is not a good enough reason. When other people lost it has absolutely nothing to do with when is right for you and you shouldn't feel pressured because 'everyone else is doing it' - they aren't. Do it when you feel 100% ready, both emotionally and practically (that means getting your contraception sorted BEFORE it happens) and preferably with someone you trust.
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Thank you!
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