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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end. I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.
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Yesterday I hung out with my friends all day. At 6 I went over to their dorm and hung out until 10. There were a couple guys there too but just friends. When I get back he is mad at me because I did not spend the day with him. He says that I have to apologize and that I am wrong. The next day he says that I can't hang out with those friends anymore because they tend to sleep around. I hardly hang out with anyone besides me boyfriend in the first place. Their sleeping around does not affect me at all, they are nice and never push anything on to me. They only do that when they are at parties which i am not allowed to go to without my boyfriend. So because I still want to talk to them he broke up with me. Is this controlling?
Yes, that is definitely controlling behavior. He is trying to keep you all to himself, and he's starting to do that by demanding you stop hanging out with your friends. If you allow him to separate you from friends, he will eventually move on to separating you from your family and you will have no one but him.
You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders since you say you don't let your friends behavior affect you. You know better than to sleep around, especially when you're in a relationship.
He is definitely trying to control you though. He's trying to make you give up your friends, and he is making you apologize for nothing. You did nothing wrong, and he wants an apology anyways. He won't even let you go to parties without him. That's rude, annoying and controlling.
Be glad he broke up with you. You can do better and you don't deserve to be treated like shit. Hang out with your friends, and don't ever let anyone tell you what you can and cannot do.
(Rating: 5) Thank you! I know! And you are right I do have a good head on my shoulders. I don't know why he was being like that? I stopped cheating on him over a month AGO! like get over it! I get why he didn't want me to go without him because i pretty much slept with all of my friends except for one while we were together but like I said even though i cheted on him for almost a year and even though the only people eh wants me to party with are people that i didn't cheat on him with THAT IS UNFAIR! i mean i hvae all my friends and are mostly guys but some girls and i am bi so... but if i cant hang out with anyone i didnt cheat with then i only have one person i can hang out with! SO unfair! now that he is gone i have all my friends back!!!1 so much nicer to have 28 friends than just one! i guess that makes me look bad cuz i slep with 27 peope when we were together but still i TOLD HIM I STOPPED A MONTH A GO so why is he still upset? thank youf ro supporting me! you are awesome! you must be just like me! THANK YOU!!!!