Matt's advice column

So I have this guy , and we have been seeing eachother for a month or two and he always makes these rude comments like ''oh if my ex was alive id marry he ri know you dont like hearing it'' or ''you have the same wasteline like amanada'' or makes jokes ''i would pick a 20 year old model instead of you '' and so lately.. i just ignored all the rudeness.. but i took him to a work party , and he made a joke saying '' oh i can make my imagination make you pretty'' and laughed and then made another rude joke of ugly jokes and put a cloth on my head and then looked around at all the girls adn then turned to me oh you look good too.. and its so frustrating because i do everythingn for him and he treats me like this... and he says he is a bit cruel but he didnt mean to hurt anyone , also he said that hes at his primetime of life 23 and he needs sex because he doesnt want to waste it as he heard on the base... and so , he said he wont wait years for me , but 6 months is enough and then later that night at work , he said he is happy with what i give him... does this make sense?

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thank you so much
Betty

Betty. Come on. Are you really asking if it's "bad" that your boyfriend acts like an immature, rude asshole? He says extremely hurtful things to you, is very arrogant, and is the exact definition of a douche bag.

It's unfortunate and sad that you have to ask if this is normal behavior. It's not. You should never allow anyone, male or female, treat you the way he is. Break up with him.

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much

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