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lets go with me and my boyfriend have been having sex im on birth control and when i started going on birth control me and him started not using condoms and i dont really like using them. well the other night he was like i wanna try a condom with lube ok lets try then again last night he used a condom and i was just thinking why again? so i was like um no were not using those i dont like them and hes like really and i go yah. then no b.c i didnt want him to get mad. now all i was thinking hes having sex with someone else wtf! and i felt like if i asked him that hed filp b.c it might or most likely not true. so basically the mood was torn and he got mad b.c i left him hanging and now its weird. and i was like if your going to change the way we have sex you should tell me why and he said it hurt last time with out one then i dont want babies and w.e so your telling me three diff reasons and i was like your not the only one having sex with me here so i think i should know why and he like ignored me on that question. so i dont know what to do.
and just a reminder im well old enough to be having sex and me not using condoms is none of your business so i dont like to hear that i should be using them i know all i need to know, ive had one partner so has he.
'me not using condoms is none of your business so i dont like to hear that i should be using them'
But that's just the point.
The fact that HE wants to use condoms means you should using them too if you want to sleep with him.
No method of contraception is 100% effective and it's very sensible to double up. Your boyfriend has every right to use them if he wants to and should not have to deal with a bad attitude from you. Sex is a two way thing. It is completely unacceptable for you to get angry with him because he wants to be safe.
Your trust issues with him have nothing to do with contraception. If you think he's sleeping with someone else then it's a different issue entirely. Stop sleeping with him until you sort it out.
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i know its a two way thing thats the problem he just did it and didnt talk to me about it. the fact that we havnt been using them for a while is the issue so whats the sudden change.
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