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13/f
and i like a
13/m
BEWARE: this might be long.
OK. So i have posted so many questions on the same topic. But i haven't gotten any real good advice. All of my answers usually say "just go with what you think is right" or "its better to do it and say you did the to not and regret it later." so i hope you can give me better advice. like what i should specifically do.
So i have like this guy for a long time. Ive known him since elementary school and he lives two houses away from me. I think I'm IN LOVE with him. now don't say "i think your too young to be IN LOVE" or "you need to wait and see if these feelings leave. if they don't then....." because I've heard it all before. I know for a fact that I'm IN LOVE with him. so i know that he likes me because he asked me out at the beginning of 7th grade. I said no because my mom doesn't approve of neighbors dating. because if we ever break up then it'll be awkward because i see him all over the place. but i like him so much that i am willing to hide it from my mom. But another reason why i know that he likes me is because, not too long ago, we were walking home together and he touched my ass. on purpose. so if that's not flirting than i don't know what flirting is. lol. so i have no idea what to do. do i ask him out myself or just wait for him to ask me out? please help me. and im sorry that this was so long. thank you in advance.
Well, at least you know he isn't lying about his age. Because touching someone's ass is an entirely 13-year-old move and one that if I tried on my friends, would get me a slap in the face. A much deserved slap in the face.
You're not in love with him. You're 13. The end. But hey, look on the bright side; there's a level of emotion and connection that's beyond what you're experiencing now. Why limit yourself by claiming this is love?
Anyway, I don't have much advice to give, mostly because you're 13. "Date" him if you want. I'm not sure what your mom is so worried about, considering you both can't "go out" without your parents' help anyway. So yea, if you're so into him, hang out with him, do whatever you consider to be dating with him, and that's that. Just realize that when things fall apart, you'll both have to be able to move forward.
Just don't show each other your private parts and all should go well.
(Rating: 5) thankyou