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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end. I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.
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sooo my ex dumped me in a text and then two days later starts talking to another girl. I didn't want to break up. I knew we should but I just didn't want to. And I want... well wanted him back so bad. But now I don't think I do. Te thing is I'm just so hurt right now... I gave him a BJ a week before we broke up. I did it because I trusted him and I wanted to make him happy and he broke my heart and I regret it so much. He doesn't even care. He doesn't care about me one tiny bit... but he's already gonna be hanging out with this new girl tomorrow. How can he do this to me?? He's my first bf, my first kiss, my first everythinlg. I put so much of myelf into this relationship and it just hurts so much now and I don't know what to do... Please help. I sent him a text last night saying I don't want to get back togethere anymore and that I was done with him. But I want to hurt him like he's hurt me, even though I know that's not a good idea. I just don't know what to do... I have great friends but I still feel so lonely and horrible inside. How can I et over him??
I think the best way to get over him is to realize that he never cared about you.
He only wanted you for sex (or sexual acts) and then when he got what he wanted, he left. If he really cared about your feelings, he would've stuck around. The fact that he didn't really says a lot about his character.
Why care about someone who doesn't care about you? If you don't care about someone, your feelings can't be hurt. Try that.
(Rating: 5) I don't think our relationship started that way. I really don't think physical things were all he wanted. Otherwise I seriously doubt he would have waited seven months for something about three other girls would willingly give him. Our relationship was rocky at the time anyway, it had been rocky for awhile and there were a lot of times we almost broke up but we both wanted to try again. Is he still a douche bag? Yeah probably, and I'm not going back to him but I don't think he's like that. I know you're only getting a tiny tiny glimpse of our relationship so I might infer that too. But thank you for trying.