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he just keeps hurting me...
sooo my ex dumped me in a text and then two days later starts talking to another girl. I didn't want to break up. I knew we should but I just didn't want to. And I want... well wanted him back so bad. But now I don't think I do. Te thing is I'm just so hurt right now... I gave him a BJ a week before we broke up. I did it because I trusted him and I wanted to make him happy and he broke my heart and I regret it so much. He doesn't even care. He doesn't care about me one tiny bit... but he's already gonna be hanging out with this new girl tomorrow. How can he do this to me?? He's my first bf, my first kiss, my first everythinlg. I put so much of myelf into this relationship and it just hurts so much now and I don't know what to do... Please help. I sent him a text last night saying I don't want to get back togethere anymore and that I was done with him. But I want to hurt him like he's hurt me, even though I know that's not a good idea. I just don't know what to do... I have great friends but I still feel so lonely and horrible inside. How can I et over him??
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I think the best way to get over him is to realize that he never cared about you.
He only wanted you for sex (or sexual acts) and then when he got what he wanted, he left. If he really cared about your feelings, he would've stuck around. The fact that he didn't really says a lot about his character.
Why care about someone who doesn't care about you? If you don't care about someone, your feelings can't be hurt. Try that.
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The best way to get him back is to first,get over him. Boys like that love to see women fall all over themselves for them. So don't. Do what you have to do to getover him cry, scream, whatever just dont let him see you sweat. Second when you over him and good with your self show him that you dont need him, walk around with your friends like you dont have a care in the world.Even go back out there. He was using you, but thats a lesson learn. You can do much better and you know it! Do your thing, dont let him control you. It wont be easy, but it will be worth it.
Lillian
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