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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end. I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.
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Okay, I am 15, virgin. I would like to finger myself but I'm not sure how to even do it. How do I break my hymen? Am I to young? I don't know what to do, I want to try it so I know what actual sex will be like, of course when I'm married. However, I'm scared. How do I calm down and just do it? Will it be painful? Just tell me anything, please. I appreciate it.
There are a lot of ways to break a hymen and chances are you might have broken it already. Little things like tampons or sports activities can break it and you might not have known. :)
You're not too young to masturbate. I would say you're at a decent age to start. It's okay to be curious. 15 is an age where lots of kids start to explore their bodies, and explore other things so don't feel guilty. You're not abnormal or anything.
If you want to masturbate, you should probably calm down & relax because if you're tense and uncomfortable, you won't enjoy it. If you want tips on masturbating or a how-to, you can try this:
If you're comfortable and relaxed, it shouldn't be painful. Just remember to be calm. One last thing... Though I don't know you, I'm proud that you want to wait until you're married to engage in sex. Most kids rush into it without realizing that it has serious consequences and it's something that they just cannot handle & end up regretting. Kudos to you for wanting to wait until you're married, ready & responsible to start having sex. :)
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