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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!
chat it up yo.
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I love him. You will too :)
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Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We love each other very much and we've been talking about giving oral to each other, I know it should be based on if we're comfortable with each other but I just want to know what other people think, am I too young? thank you for you're time, your response really means a lot to me.
I'm not going to tell you that you're too young, and I'm not going to judge you. I'm simply going to give you my insight, because I'm 17 and I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now, so I know exactly how you're feeling.
If you know that you love your boyfriend and you know that BOTH (not just one of you, it has to be mutual) are ready, then I think you should talk about it together and then try it if you decide it's the best decision.
Talk to your boyfriend about it, and see what he has to say. It helps a lot to talk to him about things openly, even if it is a little embarrassing. But I can guarantee you that he will appreciate you for talking to him about it and valuing his views on the subject. My boyfriend has told me that one of the things he likes best about our relationship is that we can talk openly about things like that. After talking to him, make a decision together.
Personally, I wouldn't say that you're too young, because if you're comfortable enough with him and he's comfortable enough with you, then you should do things when they feel right to you. And the fact that you didn't rush into it after dating for like, a week, is a really good indicator that you guys have a pretty solid relationship, which also is a really good thing.
I hope this helps, and if you want to talk more, send me an inbox :)
-Laura (17-f)
(Rating: 5) thank you so much, it really helps that you're in the same boat as I am, I will definetly send you a message if I need some more help :)