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I feel wierd even asking this cause I think I already know the answer but are guys attracted to virgins? I am one and I don't know but I feel like it is a turn off so I want to lose it so a guy will think I have "experience." Has anyone else ever felt like this? Are there any guys here that can answer this too please?

Why would a guy want a virgin instead of a girl that has been with a bunch of guys and knows what she is doing for sex?

I feel stupid. 13/f

You're not stupid; you already type well. You're about two to three years ahead of everyone else already.

Guys are not attracted to virgins, They do not find virgins unattractive. Boys are attracted to vagina. Losing your virginity is about your experience, not the experience of the boy taking it. Don't fuck just to claim some worthless level of "experience."

You want to lose your virginity to a guy you care about, and if the guy really cares how experienced you are, then he's not worth your time anyway.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for the compliment! You are, however, wrong about something. I have been asking around and every nice guy that would be someone I would like to be with has said that a virgin is attractive. Pretty much that a girl who isn't is damaged goods. This makes a lot of sense since I would never sleep with a guy who slept with more than two girls. Why should I expect them to feel any different about my level of disease exposure than I would feel about their own? I just hadn't thought about it as disease exposure before. Now I want to find a boy that is a virgin too!

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