I feel wierd even asking this cause I think I already know the answer but are guys attracted to virgins? I am one and I don't know but I feel like it is a turn off so I want to lose it so a guy will think I have "experience." Has anyone else ever felt like this? Are there any guys here that can answer this too please?
Why would a guy want a virgin instead of a girl that has been with a bunch of guys and knows what she is doing for sex?
crushoftheyear answered Saturday January 30 2010, 7:21 am: NinjaNeer is totally right, every person you have sex with will be different so you don't need to be "experienced".
Your virginity IS important, you'll regret throwing it away in later life. Why WOULDN'T a guy want a girl who's a virgin than someone who'll just sleep with anyone? True story - I've slept with quite alot of people (although I'm ALOT older than you lol) and my boyfriend HATES it, he always tells me that he wishes he'd met me when I was more innocent cos he doesn't like that other guys have have "had a piece of me".
sia answered Saturday January 30 2010, 5:24 am: most guys iv met really like girls that are virgins because theyr still pure and have never been with another guy if that makes since.
dont loose your virginity that easily because a nice boy will come along and you may find him really sweet but he may not like you because youv slept around.my guy mates tell me that the girls that have slept around are only good for sex because theyr easy but the ones that arent like that are the ones they wanna keep.so dont just loose it just because you think guys will want you more.trust me they wont [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
Matt answered Saturday January 30 2010, 4:20 am: You're not stupid; you already type well. You're about two to three years ahead of everyone else already.
Guys are not attracted to virgins, They do not find virgins unattractive. Boys are attracted to vagina. Losing your virginity is about your experience, not the experience of the boy taking it. Don't fuck just to claim some worthless level of "experience."
You want to lose your virginity to a guy you care about, and if the guy really cares how experienced you are, then he's not worth your time anyway. [ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Friday January 29 2010, 11:34 pm: This sounds totally counter-intuitive, but people who have had sex with a bunch of other people aren't actually any better in bed than someone who hasn't.
When you start having sex with a new person, it's like learning how all over again. You've got to totally adjust your style to fit with your new partner. This is why the first few times with a new partner, the sex kind of sucks.
A guy would want a virgin because she clearly thinks that her body is something special, not something to be tossed around like a Frisbee. Not to say that you need to wait until marriage, but it's definitely important to wait until you're with a person you love and trust, because having sex is a really special bond. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
SecretDreamer95 answered Friday January 29 2010, 10:59 pm: you are so young :) you have plenty of time to think about this but a guy cant tell if a girl is a virgin or not just by looking at them. if a guy is attracted to you it shouldn't matter if you area virgin or not. sometimes certain guys will go for certain girls because they come out as easy. losing your virginity to a guy so the next guy will think you have experience is not right. later you may regret doing that and it wont feel right. if a guy is going to accept you for who you are virgin or not it wont bother him. everyone wants to be experienced but even people who have had sex 50 times is probably really bad in bed. good luck. i hope i helped.. a little bit anyways. [ SecretDreamer95's advice column | Ask SecretDreamer95 A Question ]
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