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I feel wierd even asking this cause I think I already know the answer but are guys attracted to virgins? I am one and I don't know but I feel like it is a turn off so I want to lose it so a guy will think I have "experience." Has anyone else ever felt like this? Are there any guys here that can answer this too please?

Why would a guy want a virgin instead of a girl that has been with a bunch of guys and knows what she is doing for sex?

I feel stupid. 13/f (link)
NinjaNeer is totally right, every person you have sex with will be different so you don't need to be "experienced".

Your virginity IS important, you'll regret throwing it away in later life. Why WOULDN'T a guy want a girl who's a virgin than someone who'll just sleep with anyone? True story - I've slept with quite alot of people (although I'm ALOT older than you lol) and my boyfriend HATES it, he always tells me that he wishes he'd met me when I was more innocent cos he doesn't like that other guys have have "had a piece of me".

13 is WAY too early to be thinking about this kind of thing anyway, please keep it in your pants for atleast another few years.


Sperm dies when it hits the air, right?

I just really need to know because he came on my panties while they were off but then I put them back on like 20 minutes later. They were soaked with sperm but since it shot through the air and sperm dies when it hits air I am not going to get knocked up, right?

Worried. :-/ (link)
I think you should go to sex ed before you ever take your knickers off again.
NO you are 100% NOT pregnant.


14/m

I really want to get my eyebrow pierced but I am worried.

What do you think about a guy who has an eyebrow piercing? Hot? Not? Gross? Nothing? Anything?

Oh and if a guy gets his eyebrow pierced which one should it be? Does it even matter which one?

Thank you ladies!

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I really like piercings but the eyebrow is trashy, don't do it.


I had a miscarriage in October 3 and a half weeks into my pregnancy. I didn't suspect I was pregnant until a couple days before the miscarriage so for about two weeks prior to that I had drank probably four times, was under a ton of stress due to college and I was drinking multiple cups of coffee a day. I always thought that my drinking and stress caused the miscarriage and when it first happened I was more in shock than anything, then relieved that I wouldn't be having a baby when I was 18.
Its all hitting me now that I was almost a mother but I keep having the thought that I'm the reason my baby didn't survive. I don't know what to do, I'm an emotional basket case from it. Every time I see a baby I get all choked up and now my boyfriend (father of the almost baby)'s sister is pretty sure that she's pregnant but she's still waiting to take a test and I'm getting all excited for it.

I just want to know how I can get past all of this, I end up crying almost daily. (link)
I know how you feel. I had an abortion a couple of years ago at 13 weeks, it was horrible as I knew I was responsible for killing my child but you have to think of it positively - you're only 18 and still in college, a baby would turn your life upside down.
At 3 weeks it wouldn't have even been a baby, just a mass of cells.
Try to think of the reasons why this is a good thing and maybe use a better method of contraception in the future?


Hey everyone. I was wondering if anyone knew what's a good hair dye that lasts up to 6 weeks, without fading alot. I wanted like a blue or purple, but I have dark hair. Some people reccommend manic panic ? But any answers would help, thanks :D (link)
Well for a start if you have dark hair you will have to BLEACH it first, putting anything like Manic Panic on your hair will not cover dark hair.
Bleaching should be done with great care as you can damage your hair.

Once bleached my recommendation would be La Riche Directions, i've tried alot of dyes and none have stayed in my hair as well as this one. Good luck.




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