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I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.
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I have 2 questions to ask you.
1.) I have 2 ulcers on the inside of my upper lip. My bf told me that they came out because of kissing, is it true that if you frenchkiss you can have ulcers? (he doesn't have ulcers in his mouth, so they couldn't be spread from his mouth).
2.) Yesterday my bf fingered me for the first time. He was with the clothes on and he didn't touch his penis, so he couldn't have sperm on his fingers right? His nails were a bit long and he hurt me and also he didn't wash his hands before!!
Next time i'll tell him to cut his nails and wash his hands. What do you think? He only did it once!
I've never heard of anyone ever getting an ulcer from kissing. Oral sex maybe but not kissing. I think what you have is a canker sore. They're white & small. They're pretty painful & sting when you're eating ketchup, salt, or other tangy foods.
Because your boyfriend didn't wash his hands before he fingered you, the chances of you getting an infection inside your vagina are high. He should always wash his hands because it's just good hygiene & stuff like that can be prevented. If his nails were long, he may have just scratched you a bit. If you experience any burning sensations while peeing or if you have to use the bathroom a lot, you may have an infection so I would definitely check out a doctor.
Hit up Rite-Aid or Walgreens or whatever for canker sore medicine. And again, if you feel a burning sensation or have frequent urination, hurry & see a doctor because you may have an infection. Have him wash his hands next time he touches you intimately.
(Rating: 5) Thanks for your advice.
Yes they are white, I'm using Bonjela.
I know, I'm a bit scared because he didn't was his hands :S. I'll tell him for sure. Thanks again :)