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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end. I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.
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the sex is amazing right up untill she says it hurts around the opening. as much as we both want to keep going i stop anyway because i dont want to hurt her, the condom's we use dry out rather quickly and are kinda hard to go back in when this happen's we use Mates condom's.
about 6 hours passed and when the movie we were watching finished i gently pressed my fingers on her but she said it still hurt so i went no further. Would lube stop this? or a change in condom brand? or both?
last time i checked im a good 6.4 inches long and kinda thick... maybe 3cm (ish) across? would size be another issue?
I think you need to do a few different things.
First, try foreplay. It preps the both of you for sex, and it can get her wet enough for you.
Since the condom you're using runs dry, try switching to a different brand. Maybe use Magnums or Trojans since those tend to be the best brands. They're a little pricey, but very worth it.
The problem could be those 2 things, or your size. You might actually be hurting her. Either that, or you're too rough. Some girls are a little sore after so it's probably normal.
Just chill out and let her relax a little. Maybe when she says that it hurts, let her relax a little & then go back at it when she says she's okay. Either way, try those other things & keep protecting yourself.
(Rating: 5) thanks alot, im english so i dont have trojan or magnum. we do have Durex and Mates though. im using mates at the mo and durex is supposed to be better (apparently) so ill try them next time. thanks again