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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.


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I've been looking at different websites to see if it's good for you. And all of them say it's healthy and good for you. But my question is for girls. One of my ex's didn't like that I did it and was hurt when she found out I would watch porn. I just want to know how other girls feel about it? Do you think it's harmless to your relationship and good for your boyfriend, or do you think it's bad and means he doesn't love or care about you?

Honestly? It doesn't really bother me if a guy watches porn. I mean, I'm not by any means going to encourage my boyfriend to watch it, but I won't think any less of him for watching it because:


A. I'd rather him watch porn than try to get me to do anything that I am uncomfortable with and/or not ready for.

B. It's really not a big deal, unless it's taking a toll on the relationship (which, most of the time, it won't.


And you're 15, if people expect you to never watch porn, they're idiots. It's just such a taboo topic to some people, and it makes some people really uncomfortable, and I think your ex was one of those people.


But like I said, it's really not a huge issue.


-Laura (17-f)

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