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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.


I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!

chat it up yo.


ps. here's my bestestestest friend.
I love him. You will too :)

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. Before we started dating, we were really good friends, but about 4 months after we started dating I got really bored with him. He is also REALLY obsessed with me and I still want to be his friend which is why I haven't broken up with him. However, in a month we are going to New Jersey together because his parents invited me. They paid for the extra hotel room and everything for me already. I want to break up with him but I don't know if I should do it before I go on vacation with him, or after. Thanks for any help you can give me ♥

Break up with him now. If you're over him, there's no use forcing yourself to stay with him. Plus, he might think you only stayed with him to go on vacation (which I know you're not, but he might get that impression and that would suck).


Maybe he can find a friend to bring with in your place?


-Laura (17-f)

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! And i took your advice and suggested he invite someone else, and now he's going with his friend that he doesn't see too often. Hopefully a vacation will help him get over the situation. Again, thanks so much.
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