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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!
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I love him. You will too :)
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my boyfriend is going to be gone the rest of the summer. i won't be able to see him or talk to him that much. the only thing we have discussed about communication is writing letters. so we plan on doing that. but the thing is, i'm crazy about him. i can't describe it. i'm just so in love with him. ahhhh i dont even know exactly what i'm asking for... i just need advice on how to deal with this. how do i prevent myself from going crazy everyday without talking to him?? i feel like i might jump off a cliff if i don't talk to him. i can already predict that i'm going to cry almost everyday because i will miss him so much.
i'm also asking this- do you think i'm taking this too seriously?? because when i talked to him the past few days, and was around him, it seemed like he wasn't that upset or sad. but here i am, freaking out about how to handle myself.
i'm also scared. i'm scared that when he is away, he will find another girl. i'm scared that he will break my heart. i've never had my heart broken, and i love him sooooo incredibly much, i just don't want to lose him. what do i do???
please and thank you.
- a very confused and in-love girl.
I don't think you're taking it too seriously at all. My boyfriend lives 2000some miles away from me, so I know exactly how you're feeling.
The best thing to do is NOT dwell on the bad things, and focus on the good things. Don't think of him finding another girl (because if that's what he wanted, he wouldn't be staying with you.). Think of him having a fun time wherever he's going.
Does he have texting or any other way of communication? If so, USE IT! Take advantage of every form of communication you can find. I like the letters though, because they are much more intimate. I think they'll do nothing but help your situation.
And just remember: he's coming home soon. I know it seems like it's really far away, but every day is another day closer to seeing him again! If you need any more advice, my inbox is always open :)
-Laura (17-f)
(Rating: 5) thank you!