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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.


I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!

chat it up yo.


ps. here's my bestestestest friend.
I love him. You will too :)

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Okay guys will be uys i understand that.
Why do guys always say they love a girl but really there just playing her. i dont understand any of that.

guys your advice would help me..

13/f

Not all guys are "players". Though, at your age of 13, they are immature. I'm a girl, so I don't know what runs through their mind (or why for that matter), but like I said, not all guys are bad.


It gets better as you get older, I can tell you that much. I know a number of guys my age who aren't only looking to get in a girl's pants. As they get older, they (Well, most of them anyways. But there are exceptions to every rule...) will start looking for a real connection, an actual relationship and not just some random hook-up. But at 13, I don't think you should worry so much about it.


Spend time with friends and family. Focus on school and stuff. You're young and have PLENTY of time for guys.


-Laura (17-f)

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