I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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so.. i'll keep this hort. im gonna die soon hopefully... any tips? im gonna use any and every method possible.... so yeah. just need linis to previous successful cases... any particular drugs? even prescription.... thats basically it really. if im really unlucky ill still be here till the end of this year. which is about six months, if i get what i need, then ill be outta you hair! thanks in advance. (link)
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Whenever it comes to these questions, numerous times I have seen people reject the help which complete strangers whom they have never met before is giving them. Why that is, I never will figure out. Maybe you can shed some light on that mystery for me.
You say that we aren't great at giving advice? I beg to differ. Just because this is an advice site, doesn't mean that we will tell people every single little thing when asked, sometimes the line needs to be drawn and suicide is one topic which never gets the response which the person is looking for.
Why is that? Because even though we may never meet, talk, eat, laugh together, we care about you and your well being and about what you do with your life.
Words on a screen may mean nothing at first, but consider the implication of what the responses you've been getting. I know that some haven't been the most positive (and from my point of view, down right insensitive).
The problem here, is that you haven't told us as to why you want to commit suicide. I know there must be a pretty good reason from your point of view, but I think in all fairness that you should speak to someone about what you are going through and see whether we can help in other ways.
I'm not asking you to go to a psychiatrist or anything like that. Write it all out to me, to the site, anywhere you think will be fine. I know that the policy here is to keep questions brief, but if you can help us to understand what you are going through, even if we don't fully understand, it would give us some idea and give us the chance to help you.
The experience which I've gained here has told me this: if it hasn't worked once, then maybe a part of you doesn't want to die. You may not admit it, you may ignore it, but it seems to me that in reality, you don't want to.
It is probable that you'll reply, telling me "what do you know about this and what I'm thinking? Have you been through it?" or something of that nature. No, I haven't been there, and hopefully never will. What do I know about what your thinking? Nothing, just guessing.
So please, write out what your going through for us, so that we can try and help you. Sometimes, suicide isn't the final answer, there could be other ways around a problem.
Keep that in mind,
triquetra
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its not about understnading or help, its about the question. what drugs would you use? its pretty obvious. and believe theres no idoubt i want this. not meaning to be rude, but the questions pretty clear, if people aren't going to answer it but just the topic around it then thats fine, but if they want to stop suicide, well its not what i asked for is it? if the question had been to help me and then i had said that the answers were bad, it would have been unfair. but that wasn't my question so i am right in saying people didn't address the needs of the question. i honestly dont care about their opinions on suicide or if their frined did it. i was talking to thoose who might know about it and what drugs or methods would work. if someones friend did kill themselves then fine but how did they do it? thats what i wanted to know
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