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E-mail: lindsayluxo@yahoo.com
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Over the summer, this guy and i were friends with benefits. i know friends with benefits are never a good thing but anyway.. a friend of mine told me he had been dating someone. So i stopped talking to him to get him out of the picture. Well, i haven't talked to him in about 2 months and he texted me tonight saying that he missed me and how he wanted me to come over soon. I don't miss him, just doing things with him. I asked him about his girlfriend and he just said "yeaaah we can keep it between us" so i said umm ill think about it. so should i do it? i don't know the girl at all that hes dating so i wouldnt feel bad at all about that.
okay i know many people have answered this but this is like exactly what i have been going through for a long time now. this guy, we hooked up but didn't have sex or anything. well i've always liked him but he has a girlfriend of two and a half years. he has always wanted to hook up with me, and of course i wanted to because i can't resist the damn kid, but in my mind i knew that it wasn't right. i was stuck inbetween. i know what your thinking, if he wants to why not? right? thats what i was thinking too, if he is willing to and i don't like his girlfriend anyway then who cares. but then i realized i couldn't let myself do it anymore. i asked him why he was still with her if he was trying to hook up with me still and he said he would feel too bad breaking up with her and all this bullshit which in my head meant..RED FLAG. i also ended up telling him i couldn't do anything while he was going out with her, even though i wanted to SO bad and so he told her he wanted to go on a break with her. he then thought he could get with me, and again i had doubts because i knew what was running through his mind, and that was hooking up with me and then getting back with his girl. i wasn't going to put myself through that, i even told him that i couldn't do anything while they were on a break and he said why not? and i told him because i don't want to be put in that situation, and he didn't understand which clearly meant there was going to be nothing more between us, and he just wanted to mess around with me. that was not okay with me, at all. everytime i see him, i can't resist him but i have to know that i'm better than that. i'm not going to just let someone use me, i'm not going to give him what he wants. he wants me and her and you know what, i'm going to show him he cant have two things at once. honestly, i don't want you to get hurt like i did. i'm still trying to deal with the whole situation, i know what your going through. i know what it feels like being stuck inbetween. it's like your heart knows that its wrong but your mind is telling you its okay, and that you should do it. if you want to talk about anything else, or more of your situation don't be scared to e-mail me at: lindsayluxo@yahoo.com
goodluck sweetie, i know you'll make the right decision. be smart and strong :) ♥ LU
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I'm sorry he did that that to you.. and I really appreciate you not calling me like a slut or anything and seeing it from my point of view. you laid out pretty much perfectly.
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