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Im a 16/m. Today my kinda girlfriend told me that she started talking to her ex and her feelings came back for him. I say kinda because i never asked her to be my girlfriend because her parents didn't want her to be in a relationship. I told her that if im keeping them apart then i would stop talking to her. She said she cant be with him right now but she didn't say why i think it was a distance thing. Then she told me that she still wants to talk as friends but i cant do that she already hurt me before i don't think i could take it again. So i said goodbye and i asked her if she could stop talking to me completely so i could get over it faster. I don't know what to do i feel sick ive been crying for the past 4 hours and i have to see her tomorrow at school i have her for my last class of the day. And i see her in the halls.
Can someone help me.Tell me about your experiences, or how to get over this, something to look forward to; should i try to get back with her or let her go?
i've been through this situation, and i'm going through something similar right now so hopefully this will help you out. i'm friends with this guy, we've been friends for three years now and he has a girlfriend. he always tries to get with me though, and he knows i would drop anything for him but he can't seem to do the same for me. he has hurt me, many times but for some reason i keep talking to him, hoping things won't work out with him and his girlfriend. he said he wants to be with me, but just can't leave his girlfriend. i told him he needed to figure out what he wanted, because he wasn't being fair to me or his girlfriend. finally i decided to give up and move on. i've waited three years and i don't want to waste my time on a boy who will probably never be mine. we got in a fight, and we weren't friends anymore. this hurt, really bad. i couldn't take it and i thought that by not talking to him anymore things would get better but it just made everything worse. i needed him in my life, if he wasn't going to be my boyfriend i still needed him as my best friend. maybe it's not best that you told her she should stop talking to you, we need certain people in our life and even though many people don't think this, it can make things better. wouldn't you rather still have her in your life? she makes you happy, right? why just throw all of that away, why put yourself through this? i've learned the hard way, i don't want you to make this mistake. tell her to figure out what she wants, maybe give her some time, she WILL miss you. trust me on this one. this is something that you're not just going to get over, i wish i could tell you differently but certain people leave a bigger impact on our life than others. time heals everything, it really does. sooner or later she will figure out what she wants and maybe it will be you, maybe it won't but as of right now it's all on her. you seem like a great guy, don't give up hope. i know things will work out for the best and if you need anything else, let me know ♥ LU
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Thank you. About what you said about keeping her in my life cuz she makes happy. She makes me more then happy more then anyone ever has, but i can't be her friend cuz i wont get over her and if we get to be close friends im gunna hear about her relationships i dont think i deserve to go through that. I know i said goodbye but i had to give it one last chance so when i got off last night i wrote her a note it was front and back. And i gave her a rose with it in the morning after that i left i didnt stay to talk. The last period finally came and she didnt show up i didnt get a response to the letter.
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