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the name is lindsay, but call me lu. i'm crazy, calm, happy, optimistic and spoiled. i've got my best friends. yes i've made mistakes but who hasn't. i've gained some of the most amazing people but also lost a few great ones. the past is the past, i'm over it. the future scares me but i'm ready. i am very independent, i need my space. my family is definately one of my number one priorities, they never let me down and always work hard to make me happy. i look up to my brother shane, he is one of my best friends. i try my hardest not to judge others. i refuse to settle for less. i finally figured out who i really am and ive never ever been happier. i want to become successful, and someday i know i will. i'm the blonde one, thats me :) probably the biggest sweetheart, and one of the most understanding people you'll ever meet. just don't piss me off. i make the best out of every situation. i don't trust easily but i'm a strong ass girl. smiling is something i'm good at. i never give up. i keep my chin up. i stand up for myself and don't let people walk all over me. i don't get mad, i get even. i believe in myself, and in who i am. i live life to the fullest which also means taking risks and chances. i probably don't care what you think, because right now i've got everyone i need. being in love is one of the greatest things i've ever experienced. everything is meant to happen for a reason. live life with no regrets and have fun. change is something thats necessary, even though it's not always good. get to know me, i promise you won't regret it. i live my life for myself and not others. i love the life i was given, and i'll never stop being me.



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Age: 21
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kayy i like this but hes not really showign interest do i give up or try harder?? i really like him but i think ive tried alot..?
thanks

i know how that feels. i went through that for four years and i kept holding on, hoping that maybe he would care, i tried so hard but you know what? after this weekend, all that work just came back and slapped me in the face. i put four years into a boy, into our friendship. i was always the one trying to make things work, no matter what he did to me i kept taking him back, hoping things would change but they didn't. the longer i held on, the more it hurts now. i was a strong believer that people should never give up on something they want but now i have a completely different view on that. if someone is not putting forth the same effort you are, why waste your time on them? maybe this is not what you want to hear, and i didn't want to hear it either from my friends. they told me i was wasting my time on this boy, that i deserved better than him and that i could find a guy that actually cared but i didn't listen. i thought he was different, i thought things were going to work out but i should of listened to my friends. i loved this boy, i couldn't possibly give up on him but i finally decided that enough was enough and i needed to do what was right for me. i didn't want to move on, trust me. he broke my heart, he didn't care about me as much as i cared about him. my grandma told me "don't ever fight for someone that isn't going to fight for you, don't ever chase them, let them chase you" and i realized she was right. so please don't make the mistake i made, move on. it may be hard, but in the end it will be on of the best decisions you'll make :) hope i could help ya if you need anything else i'm always here ♥ LU

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much!:)


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