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Hello.
I am engaged to a great guy, I love him to death. I never had sex until I did it with my fiance. He has had sex with two other people before me. Recently he started talking to the girl he first had sex with. He says they are friends and I know that. I don't understand why this is killing me. It bothers the hell out of me that he would randomly start talking to this girl again. All I can think of is that maybe because he has had other people and I haven't.
Someone please help me figure out my feelings.
Thank You.
Look, don't be alarmed. People who were together don't just disappear from each other's lives. If you're worried, just ask how he suddenly started talking to her again.
It shouldn't be an issue if he has been with other people and you haven't. After all, even really experienced people had a first time too. If you really think it's to do with sex, ask him about it. You're engaged. You should be able to talk about things, including your sex life.
Also, I would disagree with the other columnist's comment that "If the two of you are going to be married, his only friend of the opposite sex should be you". Obviously, your fiancé should be commited to you and you only, but even people of the opposite sex can be just friends.
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(5) I really like the the advice you gave. I totally agree with what you said. I'm not going to be the only "girl" in his life like the other columnist said. I'm just scared because her life is a mess right now. I don't want her crawling back to him and trying to pull a move on him. I trust him though and that's what matters.
Thanks again.