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the name is lindsay, but call me lu. i'm crazy, calm, happy, optimistic and spoiled. i've got my best friends. yes i've made mistakes but who hasn't. i've gained some of the most amazing people but also lost a few great ones. the past is the past, i'm over it. the future scares me but i'm ready. i am very independent, i need my space. my family is definately one of my number one priorities, they never let me down and always work hard to make me happy. i look up to my brother shane, he is one of my best friends. i try my hardest not to judge others. i refuse to settle for less. i finally figured out who i really am and ive never ever been happier. i want to become successful, and someday i know i will. i'm the blonde one, thats me :) probably the biggest sweetheart, and one of the most understanding people you'll ever meet. just don't piss me off. i make the best out of every situation. i don't trust easily but i'm a strong ass girl. smiling is something i'm good at. i never give up. i keep my chin up. i stand up for myself and don't let people walk all over me. i don't get mad, i get even. i believe in myself, and in who i am. i live life to the fullest which also means taking risks and chances. i probably don't care what you think, because right now i've got everyone i need. being in love is one of the greatest things i've ever experienced. everything is meant to happen for a reason. live life with no regrets and have fun. change is something thats necessary, even though it's not always good. get to know me, i promise you won't regret it. i live my life for myself and not others. i love the life i was given, and i'll never stop being me.



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Hey, so im 15 and im a female.
i've had sex once like about 6 months ago.
i kinda regret my first time. but im was over that and everything is good. lol.

sooo, what i need some advice on is that im going to homecoming with this guy in which ive known since i was like 11 or 12 and who i trust with just about anythinggg! and hes a good guy i guess you can say that. me and him are really good friends and he thinks im gorgeous and he says he likes me or w.e and i really like him, and we've hooked up before (not sex, but like other sexual things) and stuff like that. and we were talking about homecoming and he was saying that we were gna have sex after, and i just laughed about it and never offically agreed, but do you think i should? i mean i know im ready for sex, but i wanna have a relationship with him and i want him to take me seriously. but i also wanna have sex, its been a pretty long time. lmao.. help?!!!!


thanks everyone!

im same situationnnn girlie! i've been best friends with this guy for five years and just last weekend we were talking about sex. he is the only boy i can trust, the only boy who actually knows everything about me and still loves me for who i am. i really don't know what to do. i've been losing sleep over this. i want to have sex with him obviously because i do love him but i don't want it to mess up our friendship. i'm also scared that if we do have sex i'm going to start really loving him and i'm scared he's just going to think of me as a best friend, with benefits. i would talk to him, tell him how you feel. ask what would happen if you did have sex, tell him your scared because you feel you would develop strong feelings for him and see what his response is to that. ask if he would ever think of you as more than just a friend! communication is the key to any friendship or relationship [: if you do end up having sex remember to be safe! good luck hun, let me know how things go! ♥ LU

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(Rating: 5) lol, thanks for the advice :]
i think thats what ima do, like the homecoming is on nov. 8, so i got time to talk to him.

i also hope your situation gets solved too!
my thingy is sassynena if you ever want advice.

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