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the name is lindsay, but call me lu. i'm crazy, calm, happy, optimistic and spoiled. i've got my best friends. yes i've made mistakes but who hasn't. i've gained some of the most amazing people but also lost a few great ones. the past is the past, i'm over it. the future scares me but i'm ready. i am very independent, i need my space. my family is definately one of my number one priorities, they never let me down and always work hard to make me happy. i look up to my brother shane, he is one of my best friends. i try my hardest not to judge others. i refuse to settle for less. i finally figured out who i really am and ive never ever been happier. i want to become successful, and someday i know i will. i'm the blonde one, thats me :) probably the biggest sweetheart, and one of the most understanding people you'll ever meet. just don't piss me off. i make the best out of every situation. i don't trust easily but i'm a strong ass girl. smiling is something i'm good at. i never give up. i keep my chin up. i stand up for myself and don't let people walk all over me. i don't get mad, i get even. i believe in myself, and in who i am. i live life to the fullest which also means taking risks and chances. i probably don't care what you think, because right now i've got everyone i need. being in love is one of the greatest things i've ever experienced. everything is meant to happen for a reason. live life with no regrets and have fun. change is something thats necessary, even though it's not always good. get to know me, i promise you won't regret it. i live my life for myself and not others. i love the life i was given, and i'll never stop being me.
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15/f,
hiiiiiiiiiiiii, theres this boy I've liked for little over 4 years now.
he've never dated and WE use to talk as in flirting ect I was told awhile ago he liked me which is what made me like him.
any way to make a long story short.
it's been four years and I still can't get over this kidd, and he's inlove with his girlfriend.
It's like i don't know why or what it is i like about him, one day he isnt cute to me but I still have my strong deep feelings for him and another day i think hes the cuest thing I DON'T EVEN LIKE HIM BECAUSE OF HIS LOOKS AND THATS ACTUALLY A REALLY BIG THING FOR ME!!
nothing i do helps when i hear is voice it makes my day, when i see him or even am in the same room as him everythings better.
my best friend says I'm 'inlove' with him
could this be true or no? & any advice on getting over him?
_xoxox
wow i was in the EXACT same situation as you are in. thats so weird! but anyways i think you can be in love with him. my friends say that i was in love with the boy that i liked. we have been best friends for four years now! and he has been going out with his girlfriend for about two and a half years. it is hard for me to deal with and really, im not completely over him no matter what i try. even when im having fun, every once in a while i'll wonder what he's doing or if he's with his girlfriend (he usually always is) it's just hard for me because i do love him even if we're not going out. i just have to face the fact that he is just always gonna be, my best friend. after i haven't talked to him for awhile, my feelings start to fade even though i know i'll NEVER be able to forget about him. it's like you want to hang out with him and have him in your life, but it just makes it so much harder right? i always have the urge to text him and say "i miss you..." but i think that would just make things even harder. it really is hard to get over someone that you have liked, maybe even loved for so long. what i'm doing right now is focusing on school, friends and family. i stay busy and go out and have fun. don't find yourself sitting at home because that will just make it worse. if he's not going to sit around, why should you? i just realized that i am waiting around for something that may never happen. even though i went out with my ex boyfriend for a year, it just wasn't the same. he wasn't my best friend. my ex boyfriend doesn't treat me like my best friend does. maybe i did fall in love with our friendship. moving on is something thats necessary, but it truly is one of the hardest things you'll have to do in your life. im always here sweetie, and i am in the same boat as you so if you need to talk some more, leave one in the inbox! ♥ LU
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wow, you are AMAZING seriously thank you if i could rate higher i would.
thank you sooo much gitrl _xoxo
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