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Well, this guy and i have been messing around for about 3 years now. And hes 5 years older than me, but its become more intense. Like, now he wants me to sleep over and all that. But he has a girlfriend of two years, but he says he doesnt care about her. He basically just needs her for now because of work. Well, we are on the level of more than good friends and less than a couple, its confusing. I really have strong feelings about him, and i go over his house everynight and its not always about sex. I dont know if he is using me, and i really doubt it just because of how he acts towards me. I know he cares, but its like we cant be together right now because of our age difference and because i am 16. Am i a booty call? or is this all that can be at the moment? and until i become 18 this is all that can happen?
PLus, i stay over and we cuddle and all that.
idk, please any advice?
hiiii :)
well i was in a similar situation.
i have a best friend, we've been friends for about four years now. he's a year and a half younger than me and to be honest it doesn't bother me one bit. we use to like each other awhile back but then he ended up getting a girlfriend and they've been going out for two and a half years now. it's honestly one of the hardest things i've had to deal with so far in my life. he still tries to get with me and i really really want to be with him too, but i had to say NO. i told him that i just can't because he has a girlfriend and that would just be wrong. he said that his girlfriend would never find out which was true but i still said, im sorry but i just cant let you do that, i know your better than that. as hard as it was for me to say no i knew that we were both better than that, and i had a sense that he was physically attracted to me, so he just wanted to get with me knowing that he could get away with it. right now i haven't talked to him for about a month because we're both so busy and he is always playing sports or with his girlfriend (one or the other) that now we barely get to spend time with each other which breaks my heart but i think it's best for me to keep my distance for awhile. we are still best friends, don't get me wrong but now that i told him i couldn't do anything with him while he has his girlfriend he doesn't try to pull anything on me anymore when we're together which helps ALOT. so in your situation i would say he is using you, and that you need to keep your distance for awhile. if you guys are good friends, tell him thats ALL you can ever be for as long as he has a girlfriend because your better than that, you better than being #2. find someone who loves you and only you! good luck sweetie, if you need anything else im always here! ♥ LU
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thanks its hard to stay away from him cause he lives next door to me hah, its more complicated then it seems i guess.
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