I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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For the past 5 months...or in fact more, I haven't been attracted to any guys.
I'm straight, so it's not like that, but I mean I talk to a lot of guys, a lot of them cute and everything, but I don't like like anyone.
This bothers me because I'd love to have a boyfriend I could spend time with. But I don't.
Arrhh. What the hell is going on with me?
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Having feelings for somebody can take time, they won't just appear out of thin air on the very spot. Your hormones aren't probably raging at the moment but that's normal as well.
Just keep on doing what your doing, but don't force yourself to like somebody, not saying that you would but if you did. Forcing yourself to like somebody, is most likely to make the relationship fall apart and not work. Waiting for you to fall in love with a certain person will also, not work.
Take life to the full and just wait until you have these... incredible feelings for this one person. Feelings which make you want to spend the rest of your lives together, feelings which always come whenever your with that person or just thinking about that person, feelings which makes you feel as if you've got butterflies in your stomach. You get the idea (how do I know this? I've had them before when I was in love).
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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Thank you. It all made sense.
No, I'm not forcing myself to like someone...but I'm not sure. Things feel empty and boring.
But perhaps I see/think things in a strange way? :]
Your help is much appreciated.
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