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this might sound really stupid but how do you know when your in love? i really really really like my boyfriend but i wouldn't wanna say i love you if i didnt mean it...thing is, we've only been dating for like 3 weeks, for anyone in a relationship how long did it take before you said 'i love you' please dont tell me "you'll know when your in love" cause that doesnt really help...tell me anything about your relationships...thankss.
Firstly, as much as I respect his advice (and I really don't mean to criticise him), I really have to disagree with what CuxMiBeckNow7 said about it not being said for at least two years. Studies show that on average, people fall in love around six times in their lifetimes so logically, your first love will be in your teenage years.
I'm nearing 17 years old and I've been in love once. I knew I was in love with him after just a few weeks. It makes me angry when people tell me that I wasn't, because I know that I was. Even though we aren't together anymore, I don't doubt that the emotion I felt was love. I can pinpoint the exact moment it happened, right down to what song was on the stereo at the time. For me it was an incredibly overwhelming rush of emotions, although I can't speak for everyone.
As you will have gathered from the answers you recieved to this question, everyone's experience of love is different. Give yourself some time for your relationship and feelings to develop. You might find that you fall in love with your boyfriend next week but you might find that it never happens with him. None of us can tell you how you will know because (and I know you didn't want to hear this) you really do just know. It's indescribable and it's personal to everyone.
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