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ok so im 15 (gonna be 16) female me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months sept.12th he purposed to me basically, so were technically engaged. well he is really shy.he started holding my hand, and hugging me, and just recently like hmmm... last week he kissed me for the 1st time. he doesnt want to rush anything but finally he kissed me but it was just a peck, but i no it will be more later, it will just take time, well my question is how can i get him to be less shy, and talk more, and hold me and stuff by feeling more comfortable around me. please help me, i really wish he can be more comfortable with me, and how can i control my jealousy, i have this huge jealousy problem, i dont even trust him round my friends, only 1. =/ please help me, im even jealous of his girl cousin. i feel horrible
Enagement and marriage aren't trivial matters, and they aren't for people who can't open up to each other or have jealousy problems.
First and foremost, my advice would be to put off any wedding plans until after you have your respective issues resolved. The shyness will fix itself in time, so long as you continue being loving and supportive.
The jealousy issue is a little more complicated. You need to learn to trust him, especially if you're going to be marrying this guy. Instead of telling yourself that horrible things will happen and that you can't trust him around your friends, tell yourself the opposite, and truely believe it.
Edit: It takes two to have an affair. If you trust him, there shouldn't be a problem. Believe that he is devoted to you as much as you are devoted to him, and believe that he won't fall for the batting eyelashes of every harlot that throws herself at him.
(Rating: 5) thankyou! and I understand what you are saying. and does it make sence if you say "I trust him I just don't trust other people?" cause that's how I feel pretty much. like today my friend was flirting with him wen I was in his arms! it was messed up. what do you think I should do?