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I'm 17 years old, and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We've been having sex for the past four months and I was just recently put on YAZ birth control. I read the packet and it said I don't even need a back-up if I took the first pill on the first day of my period .. which I did. But i'm still paranoid. This might be a dumb question, but can he "finish" in me? Or does he have to pull out. I've been on the pill for 3 weeks now, and we still use a condom. Just because I'm so nervous. Having a solid answer would really put me at ease. Thanks so much!
hey =]
okay, well im in the same situation as you.
I've been on birth control for about four months now, and after the first two weeks of being on the pill me & my boyfriend started having unprotected sex. Its been four months like i said, & we never once used a condom & it was fine, but everytime we do have sex i know its a risk for the both of us. birth control is 99% so there still is that 1% chance. I mean its up to you, if your ready to risk it. & to answer your question, yes he can finish in you, my boyfriend always does. ;]
I'm sure before you do have unprotected sex, if you choose to do so, that you 100% know both you & your boyfriend are "clean", but i'm sure you already know, since you went on the pill for a reason.
if you have any more questions leave a message in my inbox, ill be more then happy to help you out.
xoxo smalls
EDIT:
yes, two weeks is enough time, don't worry about it, & yes in most cases the guy does finish in you, i mean whats the point if he doesn't? might as well use a condom. don't worry about it, that 1% is nothing, its like using a condom. condoms are 99% so theres still that 1% chance.
its either use a condom or birth control both have the same risks.
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i don't know how to get to your inbox, i haven't been on this site in over a year .. i just got on because i knew that i would get a good straight-forward answer. so thanks! but the 1% chance isn't what i'm afraid of .. because i mean honestly .. what is the likelyhood of that happeneing. well now that i said it i'm jinxed. but anyways .. i really just wanted to know if 2 weeks was long enough to wait. AND do all guys finish in a girl when they're on birth control .. like am i just paranoid? plus we're each other's firsts so i know he's clean .. but thanks :)
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