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birth control ..


Question Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 1:17 pm

I'm 17 years old, and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We've been having sex for the past four months and I was just recently put on YAZ birth control. I read the packet and it said I don't even need a back-up if I took the first pill on the first day of my period .. which I did. But i'm still paranoid. This might be a dumb question, but can he "finish" in me? Or does he have to pull out. I've been on the pill for 3 weeks now, and we still use a condom. Just because I'm so nervous. Having a solid answer would really put me at ease. Thanks so much!

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amandaelizabeth52 answered Wednesday August 13 2008, 12:10 pm:
He can "finish" in you. True, it's not 100 percent protected, but it is a very high percentage. Check and see if he has a high sperm count, do some research and find out how easy it was for your mom to get pregnant. It all depends on your genes dear. Different people have different chances of getting pregnant. So if he has a low sperm count and your mom had a harder time getting pregnant, chances are it's fine for him to finish in you.

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queenbianca2004 answered Monday August 11 2008, 9:19 am:
I was in th same situation.
Im still taking Yaz.
Just to let you know Birth Control is never 100%.
My ex and I were using condoms until one day we decided not too and thats when I started getting scared too.
My mom said I could let him finish in me but I said no way!!!!!!!
So Technically you can becase thats the purpose of bc but I would just be a bit percautious.
Hope I helped


Bianca

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DeeSireDiOr answered Sunday August 10 2008, 9:51 pm:
hey =]

okay, well im in the same situation as you.
I've been on birth control for about four months now, and after the first two weeks of being on the pill me & my boyfriend started having unprotected sex. Its been four months like i said, & we never once used a condom & it was fine, but everytime we do have sex i know its a risk for the both of us. birth control is 99% so there still is that 1% chance. I mean its up to you, if your ready to risk it. & to answer your question, yes he can finish in you, my boyfriend always does. ;]
I'm sure before you do have unprotected sex, if you choose to do so, that you 100% know both you & your boyfriend are "clean", but i'm sure you already know, since you went on the pill for a reason.

if you have any more questions leave a message in my inbox, ill be more then happy to help you out.

xoxo smalls


EDIT:

yes, two weeks is enough time, don't worry about it, & yes in most cases the guy does finish in you, i mean whats the point if he doesn't? might as well use a condom. don't worry about it, that 1% is nothing, its like using a condom. condoms are 99% so theres still that 1% chance.
its either use a condom or birth control both have the same risks.

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