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Well hello, hello.
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Well I use to be on advicenators a while back, & then life got way too busy & I no longer had time for it, & after I while I forgot all about advicenators. =/
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My names maria, but people call me smalls.
I'm 5 feet tall, which would explain why my nick name is smalls. ;]
I'm 17 years old, and a senior in high school.
I always gave great advice before but now that I'm older and wiser, I give
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Hi, it's the summer time and two years ago I wrote a guy a letter telling him how I feel and he responded three months later over that very summer. We talked it seemed because his friend suggested it, and his friend said he was interested, he may have been lying. We talked for a week and maybe two days. Afterwards, never again. I got back to school and I couldn't even look him in the eye. He and I both would avoid eye contact and never spoke over 10 words to one another. Now he has a girlfriend. I want him to be happy. I spent most of my summer not thinking of him, but afraid when the time came for me to return to school that the feelings would return. I saw him 4 days ago and I felt a jolt when our eyes met for a heartbeat. I'm afraid and I feel pathetic, which I am kind of. I don't want to like him. I want to be over him. But how do I handle these residual feelings that keep returning?
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i know how you feel, trust me. I had feelings for this one guy for years. they never seemed to go away, until i started to become interested in other guys. Now i have a boyfriend that i love, & that was the major cure for me, i still think about him from time to time, but nothing so strong.
I suggest you start going out & meeting new people, i mean this guy doesn't seem like hes worth your time anyway. baby girl, you are NOT pathetic, when it comes to matters of the heart there is no such thing. We cant control what our heart wants & what our heart needs.
Once you start hanging out with other guys, you won't feel as down as you are now.
in the meanwhile try to avoid him, & anything that reminds you of him. The less you think about him the better. Go out, don't stay in. i noticed that being alone at home makes things so much worse.
I'm sure things will get better, just keep your head up high & smile.
if you feel like you need somebody to talk to, you could either IM me or message my inbox again. im always here if you need someone
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Thank you thankyou. You actually listened, responded and cared. I appreciate it. Thanx.
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