I'm closing my account after being on this site for longer than I can remember right now.
I would like to say thank you to all the columnists that I've met through this site, may your hearts of gold continue to shine through this site.
My reason is simple: I no longer feel I have a use for it anymore. I once was a person who couldn't help other people because of certain difficult situations in my past, but all that has now changed. This site allowed me to be who I really was and for that I'm so grateful for that. It played a very important role in my life and I'll never forget it!
The questions which I answered allowed me to reflect on my life and where it was going, and gave me the opportunity to really appreciate the life that I have, which I'm now living with open arms.
I wish you well for the future,
Triquetra....signing off for the last time.
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i was typing kinda fast and it was late..
he broke up wit me. all beacuase we had trouble seeing eachother.
my mom didnt like him , so she would only take me to see him every once in a blue moon. but you see his mother loved me'~!! she loves me to death & hasnt even met his new gurlfriend. and i told her about his new chick & she was like he never told her about her...
and she was like we'll if he aint tell me about her then it must not be that serious.,but you see we were messing around with eachother and we had seen eachother at the mall..but we werent goin together we just were doin the stuff we usually did when we did go out , like kissing and stuff.but you see i kinda blame myself for this happeining beacuase whern things were cool with us ...one of my friend told me he was tryna talk to some girl...and i got mad.. and i starting goin with this boy. and he was really jelous. but i kinda just ignored him & reminding him he went out wit 2 chicks without me knowing,.anyways when he started going out wit this chick he told me that the only reason he went out with her is because of what i did and he told me that oiwasnt there for him and she was ...and iim like wtf??? i was there when your uncle died and when u got into arguement wit yo mom..and then he was like okay yea u righ you was there for me..but please help me to get over him..i really love him with all my heart.. and he broke my heart so bad.... (link)
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Sorry for taking so long to get back to you.
It's hard loving somebody so much, but then having your heart broken. I was in an almost similar situation to you once....but not quite. A while back, I was in love, deeply in love. But I kinda knew that the realtionship would never work (for personal reasons) so I had to get over the love of my life. And that was hard. Really hard. I'd never felt the way I did then ever before. I didn't want to let go because it would mean that it was never going to happen even though I wanted it to.
There is no easy way to 'get over somebody', if there was a magic formula, everybody would use it....hell, I would use it. But the point is, to get over somebody, you've got to want to get over them. And that implies not seeing them for a period of time, not talking to them for a while (not a long time, just until you feel ready). And it is even worse if they were your first...I was in love for the first time as well, so you can kinda realte to this in some small way.
Okay, true it wasn't exactly the same as your situation, but I still had to get over this person as well.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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you helped alot:)
thanks & im trying so hard`
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