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heres the story....my best friend that ive known 4 bout 2 years now i think she likes me shes bi...she told me resently and well i dnt wanna be mean but now i fell uncomfortable...i cant look at her the same way its just weird 4 me...ive always been a bit homophobic...so wah can i do? i dnt even wanna be friends w/ her any more she looks at me weird now and tries 2 get a lil 2 close...i just feel real uncomfortable w/ her now...wah can i do?

This is a very immature attitude to have, and you're not being a particularly good friend to this girl.

It's fine not to like her. Think of boys you haven't liked in the past - did you stop talking to them? Or wanting to be their friends?

It's likely that it took a lot of courage for your friend to tell you how she felt, she was probably worried that you'd push her away and you've done exactly that.

Tell your friend firmly but considerately that you really value your friendship but you don't return her feelings for you. Then act completely normally around her. If she continues to do things that make you feel uncomfortable, then that's another story but for now, she needs you to be her friend, not totally reject her.

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