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i think my friend likes me...but im not gay...:/
heres the story....my best friend that ive known 4 bout 2 years now i think she likes me shes bi...she told me resently and well i dnt wanna be mean but now i fell uncomfortable...i cant look at her the same way its just weird 4 me...ive always been a bit homophobic...so wah can i do? i dnt even wanna be friends w/ her any more she looks at me weird now and tries 2 get a lil 2 close...i just feel real uncomfortable w/ her now...wah can i do?
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this is why people don't come out, because of homophobic people like you! You have no idea if she actually has feelings for you, but your homophobic mind is telling you that if she's bi, then she's obviously into you. This is NOT necessarily the case. Get over yourself and realize that maybe you're not as hot and awesome as you thought, and she's actually just acting the same as a normal friend would, you just can't see that.
please get over yourself, and ditch your friend if you can't handle the truth, because I'm sure she'd be better off without a bigot snob as a friend anyway
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This is a very immature attitude to have, and you're not being a particularly good friend to this girl.
It's fine not to like her. Think of boys you haven't liked in the past - did you stop talking to them? Or wanting to be their friends?
It's likely that it took a lot of courage for your friend to tell you how she felt, she was probably worried that you'd push her away and you've done exactly that.
Tell your friend firmly but considerately that you really value your friendship but you don't return her feelings for you. Then act completely normally around her. If she continues to do things that make you feel uncomfortable, then that's another story but for now, she needs you to be her friend, not totally reject her.
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