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i lost my virginity last night, but it hurt and it was reallllly hard for him to fit. he's pretty huge.. so i guess it's understandable.. but is this normal? im afraid that im just too small now. do you think this is perfectly normal? did other people go through the same thing? thanks

Yeah... "G" is right. I am just going to elaborate. The vagina is tight, the hole is small. It expands when you are getting some and gets smaller when you are not. If you have a baby it will expand even more and you will have to do exercises to get it to be small again. You may even bleed. I hurt for a few months when i started having sex. My stomach would hurt if it was to rough or if it went in too deep. It will take time for you to develop and strech out even with new positions. I am still expanding, even with regular (weekly) sex. What you should do with him is have him finger you. Add more fingers each time and have him go in a little at a time and take your time with the positions. Eventually it will feel great!
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