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I have a problem. I am not anorexic or bulimic, I have never gone a day without eating, and I usually eat 1000-3000 calories a day. I am 5'7" and 131 pounds. My problem is that I think I am very chubby even if everyone says I am not. I obsess over calories and weigh myself a few times a day. I get so depressed if I feel I eat too much and hate the feeling of my stomach being full. I eat very very healthy and exercise regularly. My mother and my sister both have eating disorders. I would never starve myself, but I am so sick of thinking about calories all day and pinching my fat spots and making sure I can still feel my hips. I guess my question is how can I stop obsessing and be normal and eat without hating myself? thanks

I just want to say that I was going to say the same thing. I know sometimes that kind of stuff sounds corny and I didn't want you to just brush off what the previous girl said. My weight used to go up and down and up and down. When I was "fat" guys said I was too big, when I was "small" guys said I didn't have enough ass. Nothing was ever good enough. My family always said I wasn't small enough yet. I would be perfect til I was 36-24-36. I just said you know what, who cares what they think. I am short and thick and i am the happiest with my weight that I have ever been. I am not exactly where I want to be, but I am happy with my self and I know at the right time I will lose weight, just like I have before. But No matter where I am, I am happy with my self. I am good enonugh and this is what you have to say to your self. Other wise you will never be satisfied. :) Peace

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