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I have been divorced for 3 years. My ex married a girl who wanted me dead throughout our 10 year marriage. She has a few screws loose. She has succeeded in shutting out his entire family,threatend to have me killed, now she is working on our children. My kids would always come home sad. Finally my 10 and 11 year old girls came home and said that when the new wife picks up and brings home our kids for the weekend she says " Me and your father had sex last night.." and proceeds to describe it!!!! I asked my girls why they didnt tell me before and they were too ashamed.My girls said they have sex with the door wide open also, the wife says that she has an open door policy in her home. How disgusting. I have done everything I can to get along with this woman but she is psychotic. The girls told her they are uncomfortable with it and she said too bad we are an open family and we discuss everything.. POWER TRIP?? Is there anyone out there who thinks this is INSANE? WHAT SHOULD I DO??? I adore my kids and want the best for them. Thank you! Kimberly
Yeah I am going to agree with young grandma. I think you need to talk to your atorney. I mean if you have visitation and you are divorced I imagine that you have an atorney. I would let them know about this disorderly conduct and ask what can be done. First of all though you need to get some proof. You wont be able to just go into a court room and make accusations without any proof. Is there a way that you can like legally get a confession on tape? Find out. Or here is an idea, you could e-mail her and don't mention the court thing at all or she will start acting more distreet. E-mail her and say hey I hear you are talking about this and that with the kids is this true and if so why are you doing it? All you need is one responce from her admitting to it and then you will have your written proof. See if you can get her to admit to specific things. Make your questions direct and specific. Then you got that plus your kids testimony. The fact is...I don't think it qualifies as child abuse, but you do have a say so in what you children are exposed to because you are their parent. You are their blood. I wish you the best and I hope it works out for you. Peace.
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much!